5 Tips to Great Love Making

Great lovemaking, is all about couples who really are in love and enjoy each other. This is all possible, you first must have the right partner, acceptable relationship and a good marriage. The partners are relaxed, have good communications in all aspects from house work to understanding each others needs. Now that we have an understanding, the lovemaking can proceed.

In the olden days arrange marriages or dates made it easier in meeting people (again, this is the right arrangements, nothing deceptive or coercive, these are two good families introducing two people, and if they like each other, great they proceed). There was an understanding that the girl was a “home girl” and that she was “clean” (virgin) this made it easy and took a lot of the stress off the girls and guys because she relied on her husband to guide her and teach her, then she relaxed and later showed him what she enjoyed. These types of marriages lasted a very long time. From these marriages large families were born and daughters of these generations were trained in the art of love. It has nothing to do with submissiveness but an art of understanding, respect, to please and in turn want to be pleased.

Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her. Eph 5:25

This is all a positive thing, its meant to be, remember the love story in the Bible “Song of Solomon” a love between a man and his wife, the showing of love.

Everyone thinks they are great lovers, but all can learn a little something new to keep it interesting and wanting more and more each time. It’s that feeling when you wake up and see each other the next morning you smile secretly at each other because you shared an incredible moment together.

You hear women talking about what great lovemaking they had the night before, or how good their husbands performed, but, a lot of that is just talk, because some of these partners really just did what they could do and if especially if they only make love once a month, of course is something great for them but, there was no love. But they really need to take the time to learn something new to keep their loves alive. This is one of the many reasons why sometimes marriages breakup because one or both partners go astray. They have affairs for “something new”. A lot of the lovemaking experiences that people have learned are from early age, some are perceived ideas ingrained in them by parents or learned through experiences and the media. But in order to achieve enjoyment you must talk about it. Learn not to be shy about you, your body or your partners most of all have an understanding of your partner. Love is not pushy or rude….

You need the valuable tool, communications. Make time for each other its imperative, have intimacy and learn what each others want and desires are. This is not the time to be shy, its between you two. Communicate openly and honestly about your feelings. Once you start this communication you’ll began to feel a deep connection with each other, then lovemaking can follow right in.